The first thing that came to my mind is WHY?, why would someone risk their own life just to look nicer? we all know beauty doesn't last forever but life nowadays is all about being beautiful , most of working places consider how you look more than your experience, it's sad to admit but it's true, beautiful people got an advantage.
I wonder why did the world become so severe about the look, at least time ago women didn't have to starve to death to be considered "hot" actually being chubby was considered beautiful because it meant the person was healthy, by chubby I don't mean fat, fat is unhealthy but also being skinny is unhealthy!
Now I don't wanna list down all the reasons why both things aren't healthy, what bothers me is that today women gotta be unhealthy to be considered beautiful.
I am not speaking about those naturally skinny women, I am speaking about those that are naturaly curvy but starve because they fear people comments.
How come people stopped caring about more important things?A good heart and a good brain are definitely betterqualities than a hot body, am I the onlyone who think this way? When I look at most of the models bodies I feel sad for them.
It's not only about being skinny because seems that a woman without a big pair of boobs , a Jennifer Lopez-like butt and a Megan fox-face is worthless, why , why why?? Am I the onlyone who find natural people attractive?
I asked a friend of mine why she spent so much time doing her make-up , she got an obsession with it , and she said it is because without it she wouldn't feel confortable outside, she would feel like people is looking down at her, and she would feel ugly, even though her face looks pretty much the same with and without make-up there is no way she would leave her house without.
The world is way too judgemental now , and this thing is leading people to be fake and unnatural. The tv and the magazines are continuously bombarding us with these images of " perfect " people and it is just a natural reaction to look at them and believe we are not enough.
What I realized is that even men started to be obsessed with their looks, many of the men I know started going to the gym not because it's healthy but because they think if they aren't muscular nobody will look at them.They dress classy with very expensive clothes just to give a good impression on them , seems that it's the only thing that matters to them.
So yeah , this " beauty " problem is not a women issue only, its also a men's issue.
No metter what I believe beauty is not that important as the society wants us to believe, health should be everybody's priority , to all this men taking pills and drinking stuff to grow muscles faster I got a thing to tell you " if someone gets close to you over your looks that person just doesnt deserve you " and ...to all those women starving to death to be skinny I got a thing to tell you " Say f*ck you to people judging you , enjoy the beauty of eating properly and taking care of yourself ,be yourself and keep your inside beautiful because as I said external beauty doesn't last forever "
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